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49. Giving you friendship kisses, cheating, and cancelled weddings

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Kissing your friends is fine…until it turns into a make-out session. In this weeks episode, Alex and Jon discuss friendship kisses, cancelled weddings, and friendships that have gone south. You know, not all friendships have to last forever. Alex’s friendships usually last awhile, whereas Jon’s only last 2-3 business days…or a year if you play Call of Duty. 

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0:00 – Intro

30:51 – Risky Towel Business 

33:21 – How Long Should You Wait To Remarry? 

36:45 – Is Playful Kissing Cheating? 

38:23 – My Fiance Cancelled Our Wedding

41:27 – My Husband Uses Dating Apps

44:58 – Close Friend or Foe? 

49:50 – My Sister’s Wedding vs. My Baby

53:30 – My Wife Makes Out With Her Friends

58:31 – I Sold My Friend’s Concert Tickets

1:03:33 – Call of Booty

1:08:03 – Reading Your Secrets

1:09:38 – Listener Review

 

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48. Giving you pole dancing, driving high, and stalking your ex

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Would you call the cops on your own sister? Alex would. In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss driving while high, pole dancing, and stalking your ex. Jon hasn’t stalked his ex in years but Alex just stalked hers last week. Don’t lie, we all want to see if we’re doing better than our exes! Safe to say, Alex and Jon have nothing to worry about.

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0:00 – Intro

9:45 – We’re Growing Apart

11:48 – Balancing School and Life

14:10 – Say High to a DUI

17:37 – Should We Move In Together?

20:56 – New State, Same Business?

25:50 – I Want Support For My Pole Dancing 

30:19 – Afraid of the Dark…Circles

35:07 – Boundaries At Work

39:15 – My BF Left Me In The Hospital 

46:26 – He’s Stalking His Ex

52:48 – Reading Your Secrets

55:54 – What Are You Over?

58:26 – Listener Review

 

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47. Giving you vanilla sex, rude celebrities, and sibling kisses

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It’s time we normalized kissing your siblings on the lips…(or not, geez). In this week’s episode, Jon and Alex discuss strange sibling relationships, babies at weddings, and rude celebrity encounters. Just remember, if you ever meet Alex and Jon in public, Alex will want to be your best friend and Jon will want to leave immediately. It’s nothing personal, he just doesn’t enjoy genuine human interaction.

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0:00 – Intro

11:34 – I Won’t Speak Badly About My Husband

13:43 – Our Sex Life is Vanilla

16:43 – Rude Celebrity Encounters

20:30 – Kissing Your Sibling 

24:23 – Fading Friendships

28:09 – Grandparents or Grandpains in my Ass? 

33:05 – Reaching Out To My Ex’s Mom

35:28 – To Move or Not To Move? 

39:44 – Loaning Money To A Sibling 

46:13 – Your Baby Can’t Come To My Wedding

52:25 – Reading Your Secrets

55:03 – Listener Review

 

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41. Navigating Relationships By Trusting Your Instincts

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If you’ve ever been in a relationship, you know how outside influences can do more harm than good at any given time. Even when your gut is telling you the answer, those outside factors can get you to second guess yourself. The truth is, you just have to trust yourself sometimes and go with your intuition. In this episode, Jon and Alex answer listener questions about a proposal that’s not a surprise, setting financial boundaries with your parents, sleeping with your sister’s ex husband, your boyfriend’s suspicious relationship with your stepmom, and figuring out how to say goodbye to your soulmate.

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(0:00) Intro

(13:33) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

(18:30) Is A Proposal Still Special If You Know It’s Happening?

(20:20) Is It Still The Thought That Counts?

(24:16) Does Giving Back To Your Parents Need Boundaries?

(30:11) Why Are You Sleeping With Your Sisters Ex Husband?

(34:18) How You Start Your Family Is Your Choice

(37:43) Your House Is Your Safe Space

(41:22) How To Say Goodbye

(45:50) Are Your Boyfriend And Stepmom Hiding Something?

(50:05) Listener Review

(50:44) Icks

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40. The Consequences Of Your Choices

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Turning points in relationships are often a result of the impact your choices have on you and your partner. Oftentimes we focus too much on who’s right and who’s wrong instead of looking at what’s in the best interest of the relationship itself. In this episode, Alex and Jon take on listener questions about a marriage of conflicting personalities, whether or not a ring means someone is ready to propose, a twin sister talking to her sister ex, the struggles of a family business, and how all bridesmaids are not created equal.

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(0:00) Intro

(11:34) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

(17:22) A Type A Versus Type B Marriage

(21:06) So You Finished But Didn’t Orgasm…

(27:41) Is A Violent Past A Red Flag?

(31:42) Does Having A Ring Mean You’re Ready To Propose?

(35:01) Why Would Your Twin Sister Still Talk To Your Ex?

(39:01) Is This Denial Or Not Wanting To Help Yourself?

(44:37) Going Into Business With Family

(48:42) Elaborate Story Or Harsh Reality?

(56:30) Not All Drunk Bridesmaids Are Equal

(1:01:10) Icks

(1:11:18) Listener Review

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39. Embracing Your Partner’s Past

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Everyone has a past and your willingness to understand your partner’s will help you strengthen your relationship and not tear it down. So why do so many people focus on what happened before instead of looking towards the future? In this episode, Jon and Alex discuss the art of talking dirty to your partner, how to handle finding your boyfriend’s spicy online content, the loss of a friendship, being the single friend in the friend group, and when the person you’re dating has a secret life.

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(0:00) Intro

(9:08) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

(13:47) Talk Dirty To Me

(15:34) You Can’t Live In The Past

(16:50) You Have To Own Up To Your Farts

(18:07) So Your Partner Makes Spicy Content On The Side

(20:06) They’re Just Old Family Photos, Right?

(23:04) Lost Friendship Over A Pregnancy And A Wedding

(30:07) Keep The Guy Or The House?

(35:10) Being The Single Friend In The Group Is Tough

(39:14) Is It OK To Offer To Help Pay For Your Own Engagement Ring?

(44:40) When It Seems Too Good To Be True…

(49:57) Icks

(52:48) Listener Review

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38. Finding Courage To Communicate

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Communication within relationships can be challenging, and it requires constant effort to make it work. At times, expressing your thoughts can be particularly tough, especially when you and your partner aren’t on the same page. In this episode, Alex and Jon discuss listener questions about an open marriage with unexpected consequences, dealing with a husband’s ultimatum, getting caught faking a pregnancy, and how to support your partner’s success while working through your own jealousy. As a bonus, there’s an update from one of our listeners from episode 36!

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(0:00) Intro

(8:59) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

(13:03) How Old Is Too Old To Be Living At Home?

(17:43) Shoot Your Shot At The Coffee Shop

(20:28) Your Personal Information Isn’t Safe Anywhere

(23:38) You Cheated And You’re Mad He Took You Back

(25:18) Way Too Much Information

(31:32) Do Ultimatums Ever Work In A Marriage?

(34:50) Classic Case Of Who Done It

(40:44) Faking A Pregnancy

(49:36) Is It OK To Be Jealous Of Your Partners Success?

(55:39) Listener Update From Episode 36

(57:41) Icks

(1:02:32) Listener Review

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37. Choosing What You Need And Not What You Want

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Relationships come down to balancing your own wants and needs with what’s in the best interest of you and your partner. Things begin to get tricky when the differences between those two are paper thin. So, how do you make the right choice when the differences aren’t always apparent? In this episode, Jon and Alex answer listener questions about becoming a mom and wanting a career change, why one friend can’t seem to lock down a long-term partner, the trials of an unplanned and unconventional pregnancy, and how to deal with a neighbor’s disturbing habit of calling you at the wrong time.

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(0:00) Intro

(16:51) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

(21:47) Does My Partner Miss His Hoe Phase?

(27:18) It’s Me Or The Dog

(31:50) I’m A New Mom And Want A Career Change

(35:55) Should You Expect Help When Planning Your Wedding?

(37:55) So You Want Another Threesome

(41:25) Let’s Talk About Wifey Material

(47:02) A Very Unplanned Pregnancy

(52:51) Everything In Moderation

(58:02) Not Your Typical Butt Dial

(1:07:45) Icks

(1:16:55) Listener Review

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36. Awkward Family Affairs

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From the outside looking in, what’s normal for your partner and their family may seem strange to others. So what happens when you make an unsettling discovery about your partner’s family and past? In this episode, Alex and Jon dig into listener questions about sleeping with your friend’s crush, a debate on when kids should stop sleeping with their parents, an off limits conversation with a coworker, a fiancé no one has ever met, and addressing a questionable relationship between your husband and his mother.

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(0:00) Intro

(8:24) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

(13:48) So You Slept With Your Friends Crush And Didn’t Tell Her

(17:34) Does A Change In Travel Plans Raise A Red Flag?

(21:17) Do Birthdays Give You A Pass To Cancel On Your Boyfriend?

(24:30) When Should Kids Stop Sleeping In Their Parents Beds?

(29:02) Not A Conversation You Have With An Engaged Coworker

(32:21) You Fell In Love With Your Sugar Daddy

(37:13) Starting To Feel Like Catfishing

(43:28) We All Have A Past, When Do You Disclose Yours?

(50:20) Keeping It In The Family

(56:15) Icks

(1:01:35) Listener Review

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35. Relationship History Lessons

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They say history is bound to repeat itself and the same can be said for relationships. If you don’t acknowledge what has happened in the past, can you truly look forward to a better future for your relationship? In this episode, Jon and Alex offer their mediocre advice to listener questions about the denial of being ghosted, when being a healthcare worker and drinking don’t mix, changing family holiday traditions, living a lie after a traumatic event, and what exactly are your duties as a best friend.

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(0:00) Intro

(11:35) Our Listeners Give Their Advice

(17:27) Who Needs A Maid Of Honor Anyway?

(20:01) Whoever Smelt It, Dealt It

(22:19) From Being Ghosted To Going On Vacation

(25:56) Drinking On The Job Never Ends Well

(32:50) Sorry Grandma, We’re Not Coming To Christmas

(36:48) The Harsh Truth About Escaping A Traumatic Event

(40:30) Will Refusing To Go To Therapy End The Marriage?

(44:09) Dogs, Parents, And Your Kids Safety

(55:05) What Falls Under Best Friend Responsibilities?

(1:02:19) Icks

(1:08:16) Listener Review

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